"here comes the true tests of one love. learning to live with each other in such closeness. try always to remember that which was so neatly expressed by Kahlil Gibran in the prophet. it has to do with having respect for each other's alone-ness ... like the strings of a guitar stand alone yet vibrate with the same music ... i think this is the most important aspect of living together - how to leave each other alone (not lonely)."